I'm so confused on the structure of a man's mind. . . help ?

So, me and this kid had a great thing. I kept pushing him away, and he alway's kept chasing after me. So, at the exact point where I was about too break, and tell him i'm in total lust with him he think's I don't dig him, and "attempted" too move on, & started dating a gal but it didn't last. So I was like . DOUBLE YOU TEE EFF ! & well, I was stupid and got with his bestfriend. He's a sweet guy, but it didn't last. & now, here I am asking you for help , i've been trying so hard for him too dig me again, I think he still likes me but . . . then he pulls away. It's been about a month that both of us, have dated someone. How can I get him back ? What do I do ? >.<